California: Stanley and Diana - A love story

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Stanley and Diana Reinfeld, 77 and 78 years old, each died from a single gunshot wound in the bedroom of their condominium on April 22nd. Both had problems with their health.

The unavoidable headline with the clinically cold connotation could never tell the real story. The words "murder-suicide" cannot begin to describe the carefully orchestrated act that ended two lives entwined in a profoundly intimate web of love and devotion. Stanley and Diana Reinfeld lived a quiet, deliberate existence, apparently as carefully groomed and ordered as the meticulously landscaped lawn and gardens surrounding their second-floor condominium on Guadelupe Drive.

He was a retired land surveyor and civil engineer who pursued a deep exploration of theology. She was a poet and singer whose voice rang from the choir of the Sonoma United Methodist Church. They were, said Pastor Pam Cummings, "Dearly loved people who dearly loved each other."

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  • California: Couple dead in murder-suicide [The Sonoma Index-Tribune]
    http://www.sonomanews.com/articles/2010/04/22/news/doc4bd101e968362360172461.txt
    The victims of what Sonoma police believe was a murder-suicide were identified Thursday as 78-year-old Diana D. Reinfeld and her 77-year-old husband Stanley J. Reinfeld. It was the second time in two months Sonoma police have discovered what appears to be a murder-suicide in the city.

    The discovery was made at 1:25 p.m. Wednesday in an apartment at 157 Guadalupe Drive in a northeast neighborhood near Arnold Field. According to Sonoma Police Sgt. Ruben Martinez, the discovery was made when a concerned friend of the Reinfelds reported to police she had not seen the couple for several days. When police arrived at the apartment, they concluded from circumstances at the scene there was cause for forced entry. They broke into the residence and found the Reinfelds dead in a bedroom. They had both suffered gunshot wounds.

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Bolling, David. "Stanley and Diana - A love story". The Sonoma Index-Tribune. Thu 4/29 7 PM. <www.sonomanews.com/articles/2010/04/29/news/doc4bda36049e0b9268765109.txt>. The Sonoma Index-Tribune offices are located at 117 W. Napa St., Sonoma, CA, 95476, U.S.A.

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